For a gay guy, if you are not gonna be the stud, you might as well be the freak!
Dragqueens have taught us this:
“you are not going to beat me up because I dress up!”I am going to create this image that is so powerful that you can’t get to me.
Patrick Moore
“Why were we taught to fear the witches…
and not the ones that burned them alive?”
Unknown
“The things we say to our children will become their inner voice later…”
Unknown (Fitch?)
“Only through our connectedness to others can we really know and enhance the self. And only through working on the self can we begin to enhance our connectedness to others… <3"
njai
“People call these things imperfections, but they’re not, aw, that’s the good stuff.
And then we get to choose who we let in to our weird little worlds…”
Good Will Hunting
“All suspects are presumed cis-gender until being proven guilty of being transgender in a court of painful self-exploration.”
Natalie Reed
Lees verder “Proven guilty in a court of painful self-exploration”
“Tussen “als ik ‘ja’ (of groen) zeg, dan bedoel ik ja“-gebied en het gebied van “als ik ‘nee’ (of rood) zeg, dan bedoel ik nee“, daar ligt het ‘oranje’ gebied van de verleiding waarin Ja-of-Nee nog niet echt vast ligt, sterker nog: niet eens op dat moment bepaald kàn worden.”
Hans West
“Seduction isn’t making someone do what they don’t want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already.”
Waiter Rant
Mijns inziens een belangrijke gedachte bij consent-discussies en discussies of iets nou grensoverschrijdend was of niet.
“The worst thing about depression is knowing that about a century ago my treatment would have been vibrators and heroin…”
Elena Lifewaster Jr
@eluna333
Lees verder “Toen wisten ze zeker dat het een goede behandeling was…”
“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”
Oscar Wilde
“If you obey all the rules
you’ll miss all the fun.”
Katharine Hepburn
“Kink” is a container for your darkest fantasies, some of your worst fears, sometimes even close-to-illegal behaviours…
You better create some good boundaries around explosive material.
Hans
Lees verder “Kink: good boundaries around explosive material”
“The best memories come from bad ideas,
done with best friends…”
Cornee
“Natuurlijk is het eng om de gebaande relatiepaden te verlaten…
Maar weet je… als je geen dekseltje op je angst houdt, dan verdampt angst vanzelf… terwijl de vrijheid en de liefde blijven”
Hans West
“The sexuality you have right now is it and it’s beautiful, even especially, if it’s not what you were taught it should be.”
Emily Nagoski
“In a society that profits from your self doubt, loving yourself is a rebellious act.”
Alice Lutwidge
“If you have a list of deal breakers that has more than 5 things on it… you do need to wait around and get a sex robot!”
Dan Savage
Lees verder “If you have a list of deal breakers that has more than 5 things on it”
“a closet is NO place to live!..”
Hans West
“Anxiety is love’s greatest killer. It creates the failures. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic.”
Anaïs Nin
westcoachingblog.wordpress.com 